It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing.
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Monday, December 29, 2008
~ Encourage your child's dreams ~
~ Look past the behavior - what is your child feeling? ~
~ A child at play is a young scientist, learning about the world ~
~ Show your love for your child in actions as well as in words ~
~ Children reflect the treatment they receive ~
[For more information, visit The Natural Child.]
Sunday, December 28, 2008
"...in the UK, midwifery is the standard of care. A pregnant woman would not go and even see an obstetrician unless he was high risk to begin with, or having some sort of complication later in the pregnancy that the midwives identified and then felt that you needed to be seen by a specialist. The obstetrician is really seen as a specialist rather than as the primary caregiver for that pregnant woman. "
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Here is more info about it on another blog.
I changed my MySpace pic to a painting of a nursing mother for a while in support of it and my Husband changed his Facebook pic to one of Maggie Gyllenhaal nursing her little one in public. Yes there do exist pictures of me breastfeeding my DD but they are all out of focus and not composed very well at all! And by the way, I breastfed my DD until her 3rd birthday! I hope to nurse her sister at least as long ;o)
Right now, The Child Inside is constantly kicking and rolling and moving and giving my joy that she is INSIDE not OUT like her sister! I am doing well and am pregnant longer that I have ever been (I am just past the 31 week point in this pregnancy - the short version of last pregnancy is severe preeclampsia at 30 weeks, hospitalization, delivery of DD at 31 weeks, 17 day NICU stay, 3 months of preemie care, PPD for 6+ months, pain suffering...whole 9 yards...)
Thursday, December 25, 2008
I must saw that a slug is a good mascot for Christmas - it can teach us to adapt to our surroundings, relax, slow down, and teach others.
...yes, i did wash my hands...
Sunday, December 21, 2008
BTW, I could not sleep last night which is why I am blogging this friggin' early in the the morning....it's going to be hard when the sun comes up...
This time around, however, I feel fantastic - well, for a pregnant woman ;o) I have gained an appropriate amount of weight, I do not feel like I am wearing a fat suit I cannot take off, I do not look like a melting wax figure, and I have a fantastic midwife who comes to my house for checkups instead of being shuffled through a doctor's office and having to spend an ungodly amount of time in a crowded waiting room...
So much I have learned from that pregnancy to this one. So much has happened. I became a Childbirth Educator for BabyBodyBirth, a Co-leader for Brevard BirthNetwork, I breastfed my DD until her third birthday, and a much more educated woman/mother/human.
My favorite movies now include 'Business of Being Born,' 'Orgasmic Birth,' 'Born in the USA,' and I hope to see 'Pregnant in America' soon!
So, the day after Christmas will be one day past 31 weeks...the longest I have ever been pregnant. I believe I will make it!
p.s. I am due in late February 2009. I hate specific 'due dates.' It really should be a 'due week' or 'due month'......
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Take action now - support birth centers!
FYI! Take action now and support birth centers no matter where you gave or plan to give birth.
Co-leader Brevard BirthNetwork, FL
"It's your birth, know your options"
Certified Childbirth Educator BabyBodyBirth
"Love your baby, Nourish your body, Cherish your birth"
Mama Eva - USA blog
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Victoria Macioce-Stumpf
Date: Tue, Dec 16, 2008 at 7:32 PM
Subject: [bnncoleaders] fw: URGENT: ACTION ALERT for Birth Centers
To: firstname.lastname@example.org, email@example.com
Grassroots Network Message 812059
URGENT: ACTION ALERT for Birth Centers
I know we are all really busy, but below is a really important ACTION ALERT from the American Association of Birth Centers (AABC) to help Birth Centers. Your 3 phone calls are a gift you can give to mothers and families that costs you nothing more than a few moments of your time.
Read AABC's Alert below for very straightforward instructions. Phone calls are needed before December 22. Make your calls even if you have nothing to do with Birth Centers support this midwife/mother friendly option for all women.
Some background: Birth centers around the country are owned and staffed by all kinds of midwives, and are one place where CPMs and CNMs frequently work together. Birth Centers provide an excellent alternative to the hospital setting and should be available to everyone. Medicaid does not specifically cover birth centers, so even where the midwife professional services are covered, there is no mandate to cover the "facility fee" the costs of the birth c enter itself, and insurance coverage typically follows Medicaid rules. Some state medicaid programs have opted to cover this cost, but recent actions at the federal level threaten this coverage because birth centers are not specifically named in the relevant federal statute. Without medicaid and insurance coverage for birth center facility fees, most if not all birth centers will be unable to continue operation, depriving all of us of this option. The only solution is to get federal legislation to specifically include birth centers in medicaid. This is the effort that the American Association of Birth Centers is spearheading; the first step is to get Senators and Representatives to sponsor the bill AABC is developing. ALL of us are needed to help achieve this goal! For more detailed background information, see the link in AABC's Legislative Alert message below.
When you call your Congress people, do tell them that you are a mom/midwife/doula/etc., and you can say that birth centers are a vital birthing option to which all women should have access. (If you work/own/birthed at a birthing center, great, tell them that, but you don't need to have had a birthing center experience20to support this action.)
Read AABC's ALERT below, and make your 3 brief calls today!
Arielle Greenberg Bywater and Susan Hodges, "gatekeeper"
American Association of Birth Centers
URGENT - Make Calls before December 22nd!
We are making progress with education of the House and Senate about the need to add the birth center facility to Medicaid covered services! But, many Representatives and Senators have not yet had a call from you or your clients. We must have sponsors from both parties! We are also targeting key people who will vote YES or NO whether our bill will get out of committee and to the floor -- once we have introduced the bill.
For background information click here
Please make calls to congressional health staffers this week before the holiday recess!
1. Click here
2. Ask the name of the healthcare staffer and ask to speak to them.
3. Write down their name and phone number.
4. Tell them you own/direct/work at/are a consumer of/care about the services of a birth center.
5. Tell them that a bill will be introduced soon to add birth centers to Medicaid. [NOTE: the bill does not yet have a bill number.]
6. Ask for their support and sponsorship of our bill to add birth centers to Medicaid. That's all you need to say--we'll do the rest.
7. Then call or email AABC's lobbyist Karen Fennell (301-830-3910,firstname.lastname@example.org or me (423-253-4455, email@example.com to tell us what they said. We will follow up.
NOTE: We do not have a bill number because it is not yet introduced, but we want to introduce the bill in January and need sponsors now. We can send them the draft bill language if they are interested in sponsoring the bill.
This is urgent if we want to sustain birth centers in the United States. Please call today.
Please pass this on to your Friends of the Birth Center groups and ask them to call too.
Jill Alliman, CNM, MSN
American Association of Birth Centers
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Monday, December 15, 2008
On Saturday, I had a prenatal massage by Mohammad at Essential Massage in Cocoa Village, FL, visited Stacy at Sadie's baby boutique, then went to lunch with Mom and Dad. I got to see people I had not seen in a while at the St Mary's Christmas Party that night. Then came home and saw the movie Love Actually with so many really good actors in it - it was a great 'holiday' movie though not recommended for children (only for the nudity scenes and some adult situations ;o)
Then on Sunday, I had wanted to go to a baby expo in Orlando then on to IKEA...but that night before, the more I thought about it, the less I wanted to drive into Orlando and deal with that traffic and people! And besides! it was MY relaxation weekend anyway!! So, I ended up going to Viera - the SuperTarget, and a couple of other stores there - and got some Christmas shopping done. Now if I could find time to wrap presents...!
When I was done with that and it was getting dark, I went back to Mom and Dad's, packed up my stuff (and the dog) and made my way back home.
Thank you, Patrick my love, for watching Anastasia on those days and glad you got to bond!
..."hint, hint, nudge, nudge, wink, wink..."
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
My husband - who eats out near his workplace nearly everyday - has said that not all McDonald's are that bad, that a few of them are actually sorta pleasurable to dine at and the food isn't that bad. I have been in one establishment in Orlando, FL near Disney and it was pretty cool inside...but the level of service really has not changed....and the movie "Supersize Me" didn't help their case either.
But as for the one I went to tonight, I do have to say it was better than my last experience 20 years ago...but not by much. Yes, it was cleaner inside, and the workers and the service were a tad faster and the food had a slightly higher quality to it, but it is still McDonald's. I had one of the burger meals, soda, fries, and a fruit and walnut snack salad thing. The burger was acceptable, the fries were skinny but not as greasy (as I remember), the soda...well, was soda... and as for the fruit and walnut salad snack thing, it was a vac-u-sucked container with apple slices, candied walnuts and a yogurt dipping sauce that tasted like a melted vanilla milkshake (it had 25g of sugar!!).
I don't know if I will ever set foot in one again, but we had a few laughs, ate a few potatoes worth of fries, and sucked down our quota of high fructose corn syrup for the next few years. Now my feet feel like they are swelling so I am going to take my pregnant self to bed.
And breastfeeding should also be no big deal. It is as normal as anybody else in public eating..."Oh my God! She's eating with chopsticks!!"
So, there are several really good movies about birth, and ABC's 20/20 is doing a story (finally) on one, called "Orgasmic Birth." "OMG! What does sex and birth have to do with each other?!?"
Anyway, after reading the media hype about homebirth and such on the ABC page, please visit this one which tells a more balanced story about midwives.
Friday, December 5, 2008
I have also heard in this economy that mothers are skimping on formula (not mixing it to proper dose) and the babies are suffering Unfortunately, it may get worse before getting better. And hopefully with the speed of the internet and news, more moms will finally ‘get it’ through their thick formula-fed skulls that the only way to survive is to go back to the basics - breastfeeding, natural birth, everything in moderation, etc!!"
LOVE to have a film festival with these in this area because it is so very much needed! If anyone is willing to help with this, let me know!! It is totally do-able, just with more than one person and perhaps with a year of planning.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
1)Buy your green or organic gifts locally: Support your local economy by buying from local businesses. Ideally, choose items produced locally. Even if the item isn't produced locally, you are supporting a local business and recirculating your money back through your community.
2) Gift certificates: In a struggling economy, letting your loved ones choose what they want to buy can sometimes be the best gift. Consider buying gift certificates from your local co-op or natural food store, independent bookstore, or locally-owned restaurants.
3) Get crafty: Don't be afraid to offer handmade gifts. Put together a book of family favorite recipes. Make your own calendar. Give your loved one a coupon book offering your free services for massages, chores, and hugs.
4) Donate to a nonprofit of your choice in your friend or loved one's name. Many organizations provide certificates or thank you cards, that you can give to your loved one, acknowledging that you have made a gift donation in their name.
This year, after getting our live tree, we stopped at Ryan's, an Irish Pizzeria in Cocoa Village. You heard me ;o) An Irish Pizza place! Then we went to Taylor Park to play with our 3 yr old on the swings, when Lo and Belhold! Santa was just starting to set up to take pictures on his sleigh!! We got to hang out with him before he had to work, our DD got candy canes and a tiger toy and after the shock wore off, she gave him a big hug!! It was awesome timing!
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Something else to do this weekend - unless you are putting up lights - is the Cracker Christmas at Ft Christmas, in Christmas, FL on Hwy 50 between Titusville and Bithlo.
BTW, as I sit here blogging, my 3 yr old is watching Peep and the Big Wide World and my husband is crafting a small puppet. My life is not normal nor anywhere near average...and I am glad!
DACIANA GUINEVERE ALGERMISSEN !
And as far as my health is concerned, my midwife says I am doing fantastically!!
AND I had my Glucose Test today... most of you are saying, "Yeck, glucola!" But! because I have an awesome midwife, I had a glucose breakfast instead of drinking that horribly, nasty, wrong glucola junk! It included toast, OJ (which I squeezed myself from oranges from my own backyard), scrambled eggs, and milk. That's it! No chuging nasty, syrupy, foul tasting, blech and riding a sugar-high for an hour or 2.... Best part was, my husband made it! Thank you, Love you!!
Baby - Daciana - is doing well, heart sound great, in the 140s. My BP is low and stable. And my daughter, Anastasia, is enjoying the homevisits from my midwife.
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Daciana Guinevere or
I know. It's a mouth full. You're saying, "Those poor teachers! Having to try and say her name!" Well, it had to be as awesome as her sister's name, Anastasia Marie, and besides, we plan on homeschooling anyway! :p
"Daciana...what is that?" It means 'wolf' in the Romania/Moldova area of the world. If we had a boy, his name would have been 'Wolfgang.' I really liked that name and there were no good Russian names left for girls or a suitable female name similar to Wolfgang...Wolfganga, Wolfette, maybe...NOT!
And as for 'Guinevere', it is from the Arthurian legend, and really no more than that...at least so far as I can find...
"Russian names? are you Russian? or have family from there?" No, not really. I do have distant ancestors from Russian I think, but mostly from Germany, Poland, and Western Europe. My husband's ancestors are from Germany, Wales, Scotland, Ireland... "and Texas," he says over my shoulder.
"Don't mess with Texas..."
Thursday, November 27, 2008
My husband came up with Sasparilla the other day. No comment except ROTFLMAO!!!
Came upon a baby name search site that is organized by countries, regions, ethnicity, etc. I have determined that we got the only good Russian girl's name already for our 3 year old and the rest of Russia is out. As is Celtic, Polish, Hawaiian, and Gypsy names...and don't get me started on Norse names!!
Perhaps Daciana? Guinevere? Natalia? Nikita? Alexandra? Ilyana? Victoria?
I have a rosemary plant that was just waiting to be trimmed - this went into the turkey, vegetables, and mashed potatoes. We kept everything simple and natural. Some were even organic ;o)
Our 3 yr old DD even helped with some of the dishes, like mashing the potatoes, putting cut veg into the casserole dish, and mixing the punch.
Yesterday, we went to the hospital to get our first ultrasound, and low and behold! IT IS A GIRL!!! We got pics of her profile, her foot, her girl parts...everything is going well! As for the name...we definitely had a boy name picked out...we already used our girl name, and we are working hard for that second girl name....
Possible names are:
We'll keep you posted ;o)
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
"If Mama gets sick, we get to see fireworks."
In this she truly believes.
Monday, November 24, 2008
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Here is something to back me up: http://www.thecowgoddess.com/2006/11/24/buy-nothing-day-rerun/
What are you going to do instead of standing in line with other cold and tired people that would knock you down to get to that thing first? Perhaps clean out your closet or have the kids clean theirs out if you do intend to get them things this year. Tell them that they need to donate the junk they don't want anymore. There are plenty of thrift stores that will take it all!
And speaking of thrift stores, I found three more on Merritt Island just the other day - one of which was a baby resale store - all on SR 3 between SR 520 and SR 528. I'll get back to you on if they are any good and where exactly they are...
Saturday, November 22, 2008
I am a german-polish-jew who was raised Catholic, married a Protestant and attend a non-denominational Christian community church. (I grew up hating myself - LOL!) I also have an anthropology degree, which at one point could have led me to believe that God is man-made but made the decision to stick with my faith.
I am also not allowed to be racist or biased in any way and here is why:
I have two cousins with Mexican background, another one whose daddy's side is black and Cherokee, two more cousins with red hair...and those are just half of the cousins on my mom's side of the family ;o)
BTW, I hate the term "race" and here is why:
In anthropology, "race" is a word used to describe different species, i.e. dog and bird. These different species cannot breed with each other to create more of themselves. However, there are several types of dogs, i.e. hound and german shepard. These dogs can procreate. They are the same species.
Same goes for humans: There is ONE human race, different variations. An Irish man can procreate with a Polynesian woman. Or Mexican woman and a Japanese man can have offspring.
I heard on the radio the other day that Obama is not the first "black" president (meaning he doesn't just govern black people), he is the first president America who just happens to be of a different ethnic background than all the preceding presidents. And after seeing him on Oprah all those months back before he ran for presidency (and when I DID have TV), I called it! I heard him speak and thought that if he did run, he could be the next president. I am also not saying
that I did or did not vote for him, but I will support him when he is sworn in.
Anyway, my rambling will now cease! ...at lease for now ;o)
Friday, November 21, 2008
“Healthcare is the food we eat, the air we breathe, the water we drink, the safety in our environment, having shelter. That is healthcare.
Medical care is surgery, pharmaceuticals, invasive procedures and tests; that is medical care, not healthcare. There is an important book called Expecting Trouble: The Myth of Prenatal Care in America, written by Thomas H. Strong JR. M.D., obstetrician, neonatologist from Prescott, Arizona. In his book, he points out that the poor outcomes increase in direct proportion to how much “prenatal care” the woman receives.”
Thursday, November 20, 2008
If you live in Brevard County, FL or the surrounding areas, I teach Cloth Diapering from my house in Port St John, FL (at least until Mid-December 2008).
I would also like to share a quote from Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin on cloth diapering:
"A Mother's touch while she is changing her baby's diapers or while she is bathing her is a large deternining factor in the formation of her personality. a baby can instantly tell if the person touching her is enjoying it or not.
Get right in there and enjoy chaning diapers. There's nothing you can get on your hands that doesn't wash off with water. If you like cuddling her but touch her lightly and gingerly when you're changing her, she'll learn to think that her natural body functions are revolting. If you enjoy changing all her cracks and folds, and like seeing a nice, clean, plump bottom, she'll grow up knowing her body is okay. ...
Body and Mind are One. You affect your baby's mind by how you handle her body."
And because our economy is so low and slow, so many thrift stores are popping up everywhere! Also would like to mention baby resale stores, thrift stores focusing mainly on baby and kid's clothing, furniture, and gear. All thrift stores are more than likely to have really good quality items, and nowadays have updated clothing. A family member wanted to have an '80s party (come in costume) and actually had trouble finding clothing from that decade.
So if you can get past the occasional funky smells and weird looking people, there are treasures to be found! (I hope I can get to a few first ;o)
My favorite thrift stores (in no particular order):
- Salvation Army 1218 W.Main St., TITUSVILLE, FL 32796
- Goodwill 245 Crockett Blvd, Merritt Island, FL 32953
- Brevard Hospice Thrift Shop 185 Barton Blvd, Rockledge, FL 32955
- Planet Thrift
123 Mustang Way, Merritt Island, FL 32953
- The Baby Haven 224 Cheney Hwy, Titusville, FL 32780
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
And today's challenge is: DO SOMETHING YOU HAVE NOT DONE BEFORE! This includes going to a store, preferably a local shop, and supporting your local businesses.
I have found this wonderful little cafe between Port St John and Titusville, FL called Elevations Cafe. Elevations International Cafe is a non profit art cafe that supports disaster relief through the arts and clean water. What does that mean really? When you come in and enjoy a caramel latte or a mocha freeze in our cool family friendly cultured atmosphere we're not just serving your thirst, we're partnering together SERVING A THIRSTY WORLD. Every purchase made in the cafe goes right back into funding disaster relief. (They are located at 8850 Grissom Parkway in Titusville, FL near the Police Deptartment; 321-267-7726)
Find your own new favorite cafe or hobby shop or boutique. They are out there and usually not hard to find. There are also farmer's markets and craft fairs or those new Aldi's opening all around Brevard County!
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
Anyway, we sort of went to each others reunions, both were kinda lame (mine was horribly expensive and his we just managed to go to the picnic). But what came out of it was that I reconnected with former classmates and friends I had not heard from in 10-20 years! For the most part, everyone looked the same, just older.
It was also through MySpace that I found a kind of voice for my opinions and was able to connect with other advocates of things I am interested in. I think, though, that I will come away from MySpace and use this medium as my outlet. It seems to have more freedom and flexibility, and I can post breastfeeding pictures without fear of Tom deleting them. :P
I invite you all to leave comments, opinions, thoughts and prayers on my blog....though I can't promise they will all be approved! (it IS my site after all ;o)
Now I have to take in my husband's car for an oil change and tune up. If you need a reliable family-run fix-it place, South Tire in Cocoa, FL is excellent. Not the cheapest, but you get what you pay for. They are honest and very good at what they do. My dad has been taking our cars there for years - even before I could drive.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Who the heck am I? I am someone who is just like you in some ways, but strive to stay uniquely me.
What do I do? LOTS. I am a wife, a mother, a pregnant woman, an advocate, a traveler...none of which actually pays money but is still very rich in rewards.
Why start this blog? Probably because I am partially insane in my membrane.
Where do I live? Born and raised in Florida (not my choice). Still live in Florida (still not of my choosing), but I have traveled to many places. Even had a passport with stamps in it!